Covert Kink: Keeping it Kinky without Scaring the Vanillas!

Do you wish you could express your kinky self in public settings? Looking for ways to enhance your dynamic in subtle or vanilla-friendly ways? Struggling to connect to kink while living with family or roommates?

This is the class for you!

We'll discuss risk-aware consent measures and how practicing covert kink can enhance our lives, as well as the decision to be either a 24/7, part-time, or bedroom kinkster. We'll also go over vanilla-friendly ways to express and connect to our kinky selves, including:

- Solo and dynamic-based public signifiers, from clothing to flagging to markings of ownership and more;

- Self-connection practices that can be done safely in a vanilla home;

- Subtle protocols and rituals for public settings, in-person vanilla settings, and long-distance settings (including "stealthy" service!);

- Toy options for discrete play;

- "Kinky Code Word" language practices;

- Non-verbal cues;

- Finding and connecting with like-minded folx; and

- Designing a kinky getaway without getting caught.

BDSM may be more known than it once was, but it's still far from widely accepted. For the sake of others' consent and our own safety, covert practices are essential for every kinkster to learn and use as necessary. Come get stealthy with us!

About the Instructor

Mistrexx Wiley Wolfe (she/her/any) is a Professional Dominant and Primal Wolf Daddy based in Los Angeles, and a Domcon 2020-21 Mistress of Ceremonies. She is the Co-Founder of SoCal Creatures, an inclusive pet play group, and QUENCH, a monthly LGBTQIA+ munch, as well as the creator of the Wolfe Academy of Kink, an online kink education series. She often runs kink taster booths and performs at various club events, and teaches workshops on a variety of BDSM topics, with a particular focus on deepening intention and animal play. As a gay genderqueer woman, her driving desire is to foster connection, education, ethics, and radical inclusiveness in BDSM.

She welcomes the curious to follow her at-

Website: WorshipWileyWolfe.com

Classes: WolfeAcademyofKink.com

FetLife: @WileyWolfe

Instagram/Twitter: @wileyxwolfe

TikTok: @daddy.wolfe